Life is weird

Sometimes in life we are faced with questions that are so damn hard to answer. For instance, should we love without fear and accept the pain that might come with it or should we just sit back, relax, not really take chances and have a peaceful existance in which you bypass the pain that love can bring? I know the answer seems obvious, but the 2nd one actually is pretty nice and much easier to do. It's nice to only have to worry about and be responsible for yourself. It's so easy to be selfish and do what I want to do when I want to do it. Most people are bummed about being single, but not me.....I am very much enjoying it....almost a little too much I suppose. But you know what's weird is just when you think you've become comfortable with life and you have reached the place where you are ok without having a love, the winds change and everything gets all stirred up..........love comes in, dances all around, and then leaves you :( but only to show you exactly what you are missing out on in life by chosing to be comfortable. Ah, love is sooo bitter and sweet all at the same time.....kind of like those sour patch kids :) damn those sour patch kids.